don't want to crush him, any advice?
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don't want to crush him, any advice?
| Sat, 07-21-2007 - 6:10pm |
I've been dating this amazing guy for almost 2 years now, recently he's gotten quite jealous and snoopy, and honestly I never gave him any reasons to be that way.Anyways we've had many arguments over it, he wouldn't let me meet up with my friends, even when he was at work, and we had to share an e-mail account...i couldn't have my own, and every number on the phone he didn't recognize, he'd interrogate me about it. We came very close to breaking up the other day and he said he realised he shouldn't ahve been like that and he trusts me and he changed, however Iam not stupid and I know the things he was doing, u don't change like that over night.So my problem is he really is a great guy and he moved here a few yrs ago from newfoundland, if i broke up with him because I do feel like I would be happier single, he would have to move outa my house and back to newfoundland,not to mention he really would be crushed...devestated. were both only 20 and still in school and stuff so he couldn't support himself up here on his own, which is why he'd have to go back to newfoundland.Anyone have any advice for me? sorry if i didn't explain this well

Welcome to the board pink1988,
When your feelings and well-being matter to you more than his, you will throw away the guilt you feel and do what's best for you.
Good luck on your decision, I know it's not easy.