Don't Want to See Him Ever Again
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| Mon, 10-15-2007 - 7:31am |
So...my MO is I am usually very eager to be friends with my exes, and 8 times out of 10, I make it happen, and, in the long term, a few of them have become pretty close, life-long friends.
But...I want nothing to do with my recent ex. He didn't do anything horrible, he's a great person....but a large part of me never wants to see or hear about him again. Because of this, NC has been easy for me. I just don't want to deal with our issues, which I see coming up in a friendship to a lesser degree, but still being hurtful for me. And then there is the fear of being left (abandoned) again. I try to remember that I may feel differently in a month or two, but sitting with this repulsion regarding contact is so new and wierd for me. I'm really hoping it's just a function of helping me move on, and not indicative of the long term. Or...maybe not being friends with him is OK? I've just never considered that...

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Awesome, thanks! I think what happens though, is that this board feels very safe and cocoon-ish, which is amazing, and we forget just how open they are.
gracias again!
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