Drunk texting with horrible message

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2006
Drunk texting with horrible message
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Wed, 02-21-2007 - 12:46pm
I got drunk and decided to text my ex-boyfriend to tell him to break up with his girlfriend and let him know that she is still married and that her husband was the one who filed for divorce like 4 months after my ex started dating her. I felt sick! I am sick! That's NONE of my business, and not only that, but he didn't have my new number so he didn't even know who it was and was so pissed and just kept asking who it was, and I wouldn't say then I guess I started to feel bad because I was telling him to forget it. Then the next morning, when I woke from my coma to discover what I had done I told him who it was because I mean, he would find out sooner or later. I apologized like a thousand times but he was surprisingly cool about it. I still just feel horrible. Why did I do that? I haven't talked to him in months. I don't know where that even came from. And not only that, but I told him something negative about a girl he is dating that I know nothing about, except from what people have told me. I wish I could say it was out of character, but at this point I don't even know! I do know I have to find someone who will hide my phone from me so my subconsious anger won't rear it's ugly head when I drink! Ugh!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2006
Wed, 02-21-2007 - 1:02pm
Ouch!!! Well you can't change what you have done obviuosly. On some level, maybe you were either trying to protect him or you want him back. Everyone has done stupid things involvoing alcohol, so don't beat yourself up, just learn from it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 02-21-2007 - 1:04pm

Hi missy and welcome to the board. I don't know what to say except 1) stop drinking and 2) you've already apologized to him so you just need to find it within yourself to forgive YOURSELF.


I hope someone else has some more advice. Hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 02-21-2007 - 1:15pm
....."I do know I have to find someone who will hide my phone from me so my subconsious anger won't rear it's ugly head when I drink!"..... I disagree.

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