Drunken E-mails
Find a Conversation
Drunken E-mails
| Sat, 05-05-2007 - 11:27pm |
HAS ANYONE EVER SENT A DRUNKEN E-MAIL???? I NEED TO KNOW I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE. I SENT AN E-MAIL TO MY EX A LITTLE OVER A WEEK AGO- FOR CLOSURE, FOR MY OWN SAKE. I GUESS I WANTED THE LAST WORD. WOULDN'T YOU KNOW, I RECEIVED ONE BACK A FEW DAYS LATER. PROBLEM.... I WANTED CLOSURE AND I WANTED TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON- THE E-MAIL WAS VERY POSITIVE THAT I SENT, AND I DID NOT EXPECT A RESPONSE, TO PUT IT SIMPLY- AS I SAID BEFORE "I WANTED TO HAVE THE LAST WORD. ANYWAYS- I HAVEN'T READ THE RESPONSE YET AND IT HAS BEEN A WEEK. I SUPPOSE THE REASON IS...ONE: THAT I DON'T WANT TO BE HURT AGAIN- MEANING THE E-MAIL COULD BE NEGATIVE OR MEAN. ON THE OTHER HAND... I AM CURIOUS AS TO WHAT IT SAYS. MY QUESTION IS THIS... WOULD YOU READ THE E-MAIL AND TAKE THE CONSEQUENCES- OR DELETE THE E-MAIL AND KNOW YOU GOT WHAT YOU WANTED TO SAY OFF YOUR CHEST AND BE SATISFIED. PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD DO- THANKS IN ADVANCE

Oh yes, I would have to read it, if its bad, at least take the bad news while you are in the hurting phase, and if its cordial, you will be ok with that too.
I did that exact thing on Friday, right after we broke up (wasn't drinking) sent the how can you just let me go that easily, etc
His response... "PLEASE STOP EMAILING THIS ADDRESS"
Another shot to the heart!
If you sent an email to your ex for "closure", you have no need to open and read his email in response to the one you sent.
Closure, means "end of story", not "sequel".
Youve said what you wanted to say, got it off your chest, you're done with it and you're ready to move on.
mblade2006
"Just because everything is different