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| Mon, 11-15-2004 - 8:49am |
Im only new here but need some help. My boyfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me last week out of the blue. My heart is so broke i doint know what to do. I havent heard from him in over a week.Juts a message to say someone will collecthis stuff (but they never did) He didnt even call to say it was over, just got a text. I dont know what to do. He was my whole life. I did everything for him and maybe too much. I gave up everything for him and now imleft with nothing. I dont only lose him i lose his family too like his little brothers who i was very fond of. I got a call form his grandmother to see how I was. She said the kids were asking for me. I dont wanna contact him but its veryhard. he wouldnt answer my call or messgaes the first few days. He sayd he just wants to do his own thing..
Is there any way i could get him back. Im very confussed about all of this.

Do the things you like, and try something new you never did before. Eventually you will find that you won’t think about him as much, the tears will dry for the most part, and you will be all right. You will have better and worse days, but it will get much better once you start concentrating on only you. Be a little selfish, this is the time for it. He left and he is thinking about himself only, so go ahead and get to know yourself, your likes and dislikes.
Maybe he will come around once he realizes that he left behind such a wonderful and independent person as you, but if he won’t then you will emerge as a stronger person after this and people will notice this and will want to get to know you. If he won’t come back, you don’t need him anyway, b/c he does not deserve to be with a gem like you, if he can’t appreciate your value. Eat, exercise, read, watch TV, listen to music, and do whatever else you enjoy doing, or ever wanted to try and learn to do. Take care of yourself and it will all fall into place.