Dumped by a TEXT?!

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Registered: 01-08-2010
Dumped by a TEXT?!
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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 9:35pm

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 9:17am

Should you pick up the phone if he calls?

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Registered: 01-08-2010
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 10:02am

Thank you. :) I needed to hear that.

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Registered: 03-29-2004
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 11:13am

Honey, I have BEEN THERE.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 11:29am

Big (HUGS) to you.

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Registered: 09-25-2010
Sat, 12-11-2010 - 2:59pm
Count your blessings that this guy is out of your life! Block him from contacting you so he doesn't effect your healing. No one has a right to belittle and berate another- that's called abuse. He doesn't have the capacity to be in an emotionally mature relationship and if you let him come back, it will only end up the same as before. Do the right thing for yourself and block him out of your life and move on. You deserve better! Unless this guy gets help he will never change.

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Registered: 12-13-2010
Mon, 12-13-2010 - 6:25pm

:smileysad: that is so cold

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Wed, 12-15-2010 - 12:04pm

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm sure though, as much as it shocked you to have the finality of it, and though you're angry at his method... It can't be TOO surprising to you that he's broke up with you this way. Please remember that his actions are not a reflection of you, it's all about him and how cowardly, manipulative, and perhaps mentally ill he is.

I wouldn't pick up. He's broken up with you and regardless of how he did it, I agree, he's allowed you to finish your prison sentence in this relationship. A week's salary sucks to lose, but you can now use that time to do other things to help you recover.

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Registered: 07-04-2006
Wed, 12-15-2010 - 4:03pm

My ex dumped me with an e-mail sent the morning after we'd had a conversation the evening before about our plans for the next night.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 4:16pm

I agree with the others that you are well rid of him.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 9:53am

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