E-Card to Say Goodbye.....
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E-Card to Say Goodbye.....
| Sun, 01-16-2005 - 5:02pm |
I just can't believe this :My ex just sent me an electronic card to say his last goodbye after our break up and that we now need to move on with our lives,although he will never forget the special times together.
He sent me this card coz he knew I wouldn't speak to him.
Would someone who really cared about how hurt you are after a break up send you a CARD to say goodbye.
I really thought this was insult and I undoubtedly didn't message him to reply re.this card.
Any advice about this ?

Well, in all fairness, I sent a Christmas card to break up with a boyfriend. And HONESTLY, did not do it to be mean. In my mind it was easier than a big confrontation. But to this day everyone tells me how horrible it was, and I can say that I guess they are right. I just didn't really put any mean thoughts into it when I did it. He could have done it just because he knew you wouldn't take his calls. Or he could be doing it to be a prick.
Good luck!
I really don't think he did it to HURT you. He probably meant to be thoughtful but ended up just being inconsiderate and thoughtless.
Sheri
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Honestly, I dont think that he meant to hurt you by sendin you an ecard, altho you took it as an insult. He prolly knew you wouldnt answer you calls, or answer your door or what not, so thought that it was the best way to finally say goodbye. I would be hurt too by first seeing an ecard from my ex saying goodbye. But you know what, at least he did send it to say a final goodbye and was being considerate in that way. I think the ecard shows that he cares, he still wants you to know that things wont be forgotten and what not and he knew it was the only way to reach you and to tell you that. You have the option of writing him back about the card or not. The ball is in your court. I mean you can just leave it as that and everythin has been said and done with. Or you could write him back about it with your comments but with doing that, you could get another ecard or email back from him and it could go on and on.
An ecard prolly isnt the best way to go, but at least you got your final goodbye..Cheer up hun!!! I didnt even get that, I got a breakup over the phone and when i said i was coming over he said "if you come over, i wont be here" and he meant it..