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emailing for my stuff
| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 9:54pm |
I have been posting here about my breakup which was 3 weeks ago, and how my ex thinks
| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 9:54pm |
I have been posting here about my breakup which was 3 weeks ago, and how my ex thinks
I would leave that whole sentence out.
i'd leave it out too. intro\ducing feelings into it just might make this even messier.
I already know for 100% certainty he will not respond. so I am prepared for that. I do however think he will leave my stuff with front desk. He is the type of person who doesn't want people to think badly of him (too late), so i highly doubt he will feel comfortable not returning my things with such a stern email. its also very unlike me to write something so brief, no emotion and to the point.
I am trying to take control and power back of my life. this is the last step. not that i am healed from it. but my stuff there just gives me a subconcious attachement to his house, to his bedroom...who the hell wants to live in a bedroom with your ex's stuff in the drawers (other then him:)
If he can't face the issues for whatever reason, that is his problem. But it is not fair to me to expect me to move on and have closure and still keep me in his house. if that makes any sense.
Oh, by no response I meant that he won't do anything including drop the stuff off, so you need to have a backup plan for moving on without getting your stuff.
Good!
Hey sheri
I was so shocked, but so relieved. when i got the msg there was something downstairs, it was like a punch to my gut, but literally within SECONDS, i felt relief. literally. in fact, his move was so swift, and so quick, that i was unsure, which came first, the chicken or the egg. So much so, that i had to call and ask if he received my email and that is why he did it.
He said yes, he said he was going to respond with an apology email and that i was right about everything i said. he said the only reason he hadn't done it was out of being lazy and he realized after my email why he had to do it right away. (odd though, because i had mentioned it in past convos) i think outlining the reasons in email was better.
We went on to talk for 45 minutes, in which he told me he has NOT YET TOLD HIS FAMILY!!!! its been weeks. he also has not told one of his very close friends who plays basketball with twice a week. I said "what do you say when they ask how i am????" he said, i say you are great. that to me is CRAZY. literally.
Well, good, it sounds like you got what you needed from that conversation and from getting your stuff back,