Mmmm. words of Wisdom in relation to what? How to deal with the break up is pretty well covered in the bottom section. But I suspect or guess that at some point you're going to start pining for closure because it never really 'ended'.
In terms of advice or opinion on your relationship or ex-relationship, I'm not judging, but I have to point out that this is perhaps not the most adult way to handle the lack of a click. It comes out as more of a drama than reality, really. From the flip side of the coin, I can say that if I'd been on the receiving end of the statement that Carrie pointed out, I wouldn't come either. I would feel unwanted, insulted, and angry, and I'd be surprised if he doesn't. That's not to say you're WRONG for wanting to break up, I just feel that two adults should be able to party more respectfully than that. Capice?
In a more general sense, there are plenty of nice guys out there. Definitely and for sure. It's been said before, but I'll repeat, being a great guy doesn't mean he's great for you. Obviously having to become the sole breadwinner in the family is a dealbreaker for you, and I can appreciate and respect that.
cheers,
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your
Welcome to this board bluebonnetq,
I can understand wanting more out of life or more out of a relaitonship, but I can't imagine this:
::Couldn't sleep all night, and when I got up to go to work I said "I think it would be best if I just walk away".
Mmmm. words of Wisdom in relation to what? How to deal with the break up is pretty well covered in the bottom section. But I suspect or guess that at some point you're going to start pining for closure because it never really 'ended'.
In terms of advice or opinion on your relationship or ex-relationship, I'm not judging, but I have to point out that this is perhaps not the most adult way to handle the lack of a click. It comes out as more of a drama than reality, really. From the flip side of the coin, I can say that if I'd been on the receiving end of the statement that Carrie pointed out, I wouldn't come either. I would feel unwanted, insulted, and angry, and I'd be surprised if he doesn't. That's not to say you're WRONG for wanting to break up, I just feel that two adults should be able to party more respectfully than that. Capice?
In a more general sense, there are plenty of nice guys out there. Definitely and for sure. It's been said before, but I'll repeat, being a great guy doesn't mean he's great for you. Obviously having to become the sole breadwinner in the family is a dealbreaker for you, and I can appreciate and respect that.
cheers,
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
Thanks for the feedback from both of you.