Ended it today 5 yrs & a 4 year old son
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Ended it today 5 yrs & a 4 year old son
| Wed, 06-15-2005 - 2:16pm |
I think this time we are done for good this is a messy story, been seeing this guy the father of my son for the last 5 years and after i got pregnant found out he not only had a girl friend but was living with her I still stayed in the relationship hoping he would have eventually leave her to be with me and his son, which he claims he would do many times, but if never happen. And please do not judge me. I am heart broken but hoping I can finally walk way. I have no idea how we will deal with him coming to get my son or him spending time with him on a whole I can not apply the no contact rule i so wish i could.
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| Wed, 06-15-2005 - 2:57pm |
Awww sweetie, nobody will judge you here. I'm sorry you are going thru this. We all have hopes when it comes to the ones we love, and we wait and wait and put ourselves thru mud and abuse just in case they decide to come back to us. We've all done it. You;ll realize that he isn't worth it and you'll begin to heal. It's hard but you will get thru this! My ex (father of my son) left when he was 3. I cried and longed for him. When we were together it was rocky too, I was just trying to hold it together because we were a family, right??? But I did get over it and now realize we were never right for each other. It will be harder to accept if he decides to still be a part of your son's life, but you will have to stay strong for his sake. You can only cross one bridge at a time. Deal with the visitation when it comes, get him for child support now for your protection no matter what he says. Your ex has lied and cheated and moved on , so you gotta take care of yourself, heal your heart, pamper yourself. Cry, vent, journal, lean on friends/family. It's going to get better, *I promise!*
| Fri, 06-17-2005 - 1:18pm |
Well day before yesterday he went and talk to my mother he and her are kinda close he told her what happen and she told him straight up thats my choice and she not getting involve i was happy she told him that. After I got out of the gym last night saw a miss call from him and like a fool I call him back wish i did'nt, he came on the phone with the same old thing, for a minute I taught we were getting back together but today i know we are finish, sad to say i have to have some saught of contact because of our son.
