Hi there,
Here's my current dilemna....my ex, who I dated for 4 years, and we've been broken up for 2 1/2 months after he cheated...well he is messing with my mind again. I tried the NC thing for a while, but it never really worked. I even started hanging out with this new guy of interest...but I'm taking that super slow...don't exactly want a relationship at the moment. Anyways, last week, my ex was away on vacation. To my surprise, he calls me at 8 am before heading out for his trip to let me know and to tell me to have a good week. It was a hard week for me...I tried to get my mind off of him...but images of him hooking up w/random chicks on the island he was visiting popped into my mind often. Anyways, he got back this past Sunday and left me a message on Monday...telling me that he got back safely, and that HE Missed Me...and then he goes on to tell me that he will call later that night. I was irked....and yes, he did not call later that night, or the next day or today. I think he is doing all of this on purpose...just to keep me on my toes. It's so annoying. I'm trying really hard to be strong and move forward...in general it's going OK. However, right now I'm a bit bummed. Tonight, I tried to call him back...but it went to voicemail and I did not leave a message. Why is it when I take a few steps forward...I always end up backtracking. And why did he tell me that he missed me?