ex is acting as if all is norm

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Registered: 10-06-2003
ex is acting as if all is norm
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 8:46am

Hi everyone,


i posted a message on 'is it meant to be' a few weeks back named 'from 100 to 0' anyway it's about me & bf (now ex) who could not bring himself to kiss me coz he is not into me anymore. i still cringe now coz it still hurts.


to go through a break up again is really s***. and i am confused.


he still wants to be frens coz he said i am one of the nicest persons he had ever met (yeah, doormat & a fool for tolerating such nonsense for so long, probably is that he means)


he calls and texts me still. but i know all these will end when he gets bored/tired/finds someone new.


i don't think i can be with frens with him.


i'm torn between just ignoring totally or telling him to get lost after breaking my heart. how can he still expect me to be normal and not to 'give him the cold shoulder'?


i do not want to die all over again when he stops giving me this attention. i know it is probably unreal.


the horrible thing is, i still have feelings for him. stupid i know..


i have told him not to call me anymore that night we broke up.


now how?


thanks.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 3:34pm

Hi sillypop,


You stand your ground. You don't have to stay friends with him just because he *wants* to be friends.

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 7:04am

thought i'll post an update... & get some more advice & support :)


it's been 1 month and 19 days

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 6:05pm
sillypop, can you hang out with him as friend and possibly listen to what's happening in his life without feeling bad, sad, anger, upset, left out, especially if he ever starts talking about another girl?
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Registered: 10-06-2003
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 10:20pm

last night i was ponderng over it again & i realized yes, i am still not over him.


i still have feelings for him &