Ex-boyfriend and wife expecting

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Registered: 05-01-2006
Ex-boyfriend and wife expecting
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Fri, 12-29-2006 - 9:06am
My ex-boyfriend and his wife are expecting their first child in March. I am happy for him but it is awkward. My husband and I are friendly with them and seem them every 2-3 months. She is a nice lady and I like her. He and I have remained friends but sometimes I wonder, "What if?" We dated 11 years ago and he broke my heart unintentionally. Maybe, this working mom just needs to get out more.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 3:42pm

Have you always had these feelings or is it just the fact that the baby is coming that has brought the feelings to a head?

Maybe some distance between the two of you is a good idea. Getting involved in something that you find fulfilling is a good idea also. Look at your own family, what do you think is missing?

Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: Overcoming Regrets, Mistakes, and Missed Opportunities by Arthur Freeman


Carrie

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 3:43pm
Hmm, not exactly sure what you're getting at, since you have child(ren?) of your own.

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