Ex called after 2 yrs

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Ex called after 2 yrs
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Mon, 01-10-2005 - 4:06pm

A couple of years ago, I responded to a personal ad on the net. After meeting, we hit it off and dated for a year.

While dating we had a few arguements because he refused to remove his personal ad from the net and that really bothered me. He said I was overreacting, insecure, etc.

I dumped him. A few months later, I found out he accepted a job offer and moved to another state. I became very upset and started crying. So, I emailed him. He responded and invited me to visit.

I thought we had reconnected and was hoping for a long distance relationship.

After I returned from my trip, he rarely called and when I called him, he was distant. You can tell when a person doesn't want to be bothered.

I made contact a few more times and his distant behavior continued, so I walked away and and moved on.

I haven't heard from him in 2 yrs. Over the weekend, he left a message on my answering machine. He said he was calling to see how I was doing and what's up.

I was suprised and happy to hear his voice at 1st, then I became kind of angry. Like what does this jerk want after 2 yrs. Why call an ex after 2 yrs? What do you want? What is there to say?

I didn't return the call, it's like why talk now, I'm use to you being gone.

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 10:14pm
I agree with you!!
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