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| Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:17am |
It's been three weeks since my bf of three years broke up with me. Long story short: we've been
| Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:17am |
It's been three weeks since my bf of three years broke up with me. Long story short: we've been
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One more thing: Another fear I have is that he'll fall for someone else. I know it won't happen anytime soon (you can't just forget three years
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::I had planned to visit him next month (anniversary), and I still have that time off... I know it's not the best thing to do, but I don't know why.
I appreciate your response, and I've visited much of the links (great material, btw).
He told me that the things he's opening up about to his old friends and the new one are issues and problems that I already know about. I still can't help but feel
Interesting that he would talk to friends about the issues, open up to them, but shut you out and not go to counseling, that's not a good sign for the relationship overall.
You can post any time you want or need to.... no rules about how much or how often you can vent or rant.
Oh, he's definitely gonna do counseling. It's just a matter of setting up appointments and administrative stuff (he just moved to his new place last week). He got the idea from me (last time we were together, we went to see my counselor).
What do you think of the fact that he says the stuff he's telling others is the stuff I already know?
I think he's talking to the wrong people to work out the issues.....
My counselor has this to say about the trip issue: If I can treat it as a fun, nonserious trip in which we just sightsee and enjoy the city together, then that could be a big plus for our relationship (both as friends now and in the long run). That if I can do so without feeling too torn up about it inside, or without putting any pressure on revisiting the relationship issue, then go for it.
If we
I responded to your off-line email this morning, but it may have gotten delayed in cyberspace ;)
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