Feel so lost and misrable, please help me

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2011
Feel so lost and misrable, please help me
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Sun, 05-15-2011 - 10:46pm
I am new here, can someone help me... I jusy brokeup with a 7mth ldr with guy he is the 1 chasing me and say he love me, he want me into his life...we are so in love in 1st 5mths...but things seen not right beginning. He started seldom call n txt me, n now hw say "Give him free, n u spend times for yrself. I will consider am i match to you" ...omg after seeing this i feel so hurt n sad... I txted him and say i love hom truely fm my heart thar not lying at all, but he still not reply...than i let him go...the nxt day he txted me say "good night" i reply rest well. Next day he txted me again aaking about some website, i am happy than i reply... But after than he stop txting me....i feel so lostn miserable now, i use to so in love with this guy, i really dont know how to do, i keep crying cause i miss him, can someone help me please :'( thanks
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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 05-16-2011 - 9:36am

You did the right thing. A long distance relationship probably wasn't a good fit for you.

It sounds like all you did was text one another anyway. You may have felt love for him but did you even really KNOW him?

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Registered: 05-13-2011
Mon, 05-16-2011 - 9:40am

omg...thanks for the reply dear...

he did come to my country once, that 2 days we have a great times been together, but things changed after he back to his country...he say he need freedom, he say he need times :(