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| Fri, 07-28-2006 - 11:05am |
i just broke up with my boyfriend saturday. we started going out sept 29 2004. we were so close to 2 years. we were going to move in an apartment together aug 4 and we were so in love. then he told me he was going to go buy a 13,000 truck. and im like why would u do that when we are about to get an apt? he just kept saying he can afford it.so i kept trying to talk him outa it and he would just say that i just dont want him to be happy. and i kept saying no i dont want u to live pay check to pay check. but he just wouldnt listen. so i broke up with him. then that monday he comes over to my house saying i think we should just start seeing other people cuz were young and need to experiment. then get back with eachother when were ready... then outa no where he says i have to tell you something, you know that girl that has a crush on me at work well she locked her keys in the car last night so i drove her to my friends house and she was rubbing on me all night then kised me but i back up. then slept in the same room but not next to eachother. when he told me that it felt like my heart was ripped out, and he didnt tell me about the kiss right away i had to tear it outa him. and all my friends are saying he porbably did more then that with her. so i just started crying and said i told u you shoulda quit that job. and he was like i will if u want me to. and he didnt want to leave me anymore. then the next day he called me when i was in the car talkin to one of me guy friends about what happend so i told me ex on the phone i had to go and he said why i said because im with my friend Don, and he fliped out he said i dont have feelings for u anymore were not meant to be we need to break it off for good. then said when u have sex use a rubber then he tells me but i still wanna have sex you then i said WHAT u have no feelings for me but u have sex with me then he says im just kidding i do have feelings for you. and if you were to meet this guy which is 19 and so am i, he is so nice he would do anything for anyone. thats why i just couldnt believe what i was hearing. I have never seen that side of him before ever. so im thinking maybe he acted like that out of guilt cuz maybe he did have sex with that girl from work. but he called back after that 20 mins later saying can you come over there's some things i have to get off my chest. and i said ya then hung up. and my friend don was like you shouldnt have said that u need to let him no ur getting over him. so i call back and say can u tell me on the phone then he said dont worry about it and hung up. and that was it. but now im just thinking i wonder how long he has liked her, he claims he doesnt and wanted to get back with me. any advice.
thanks

Your ex sounds very immature! The bottom line is, it doesn't matter if he acted out of guilt, doesn't matter if he is interested in the girl from work and for how long. He told you he doesn't have feelings for you anymore. Run! And don't contact him or take his calls anymore. He has wasted enough of your precious time. You deserve someone better.