Feelig depressed

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Feelig depressed
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Fri, 05-20-2005 - 10:08am
Well me and my ex are not officially broken up, but we have not spoken to eachtoher in 2 weeks. You see he lied to me. He said he would not go to a strip club and he went anyway. It is not just that it is that he has been disrespecting me here and there. By yelling and cussing. He calls me the b*word like its nothing. I have a problem with him going to strip clubs because he has a history of paying for sex. He almost did it at a strip club. (not there of course, but he did offe the girl $$$ and she called him) And he has done it before. He also beat me back in October. It seems like there is nothing good about him, so why am I feeling so depressed and sad. I went through a divorce about 5 years ago and I would think this should be a breeze since I have no kids with him or nothing and with my ex-husband, I have our son and I was able to get through that. He also lives next door and I take his kids to school in the morning and he picks up my son. We don't see eachother or talk at all. I have been having a lot of dreams about him being with someone. Throuout our relationship he also hurt my self-esteem by telling me all of the things that I should change about myself. So why can't I let him go? He also had an add on a dating website saying that he was dating while we were together. Jerk right? So why am I still so in love with him? I don't know what to do. I have gone out with friends, but I don't have fun. I am not a social person. When I go out in crowds, I am usually quite and boring. Advice????
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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: xena_p
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 2:59pm

you must disentangle yourself from a man who beats you and calls you names.

do you still live next door to this guy? if so, move.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: xena_p
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 4:18pm

xena_p....


2 Suggestions from Pianoguy.......if you don't mind?


1. Drop this guy.