It is a weird feeling. I was very in love with my last long term relationship, when I realized I wasn't in love anymore, for me was more of a relief, but I know it's different for you.
I finished Great Lion of God - it was excellent. ;)
Toward the end of the movie this guy is having a heart to heart with this guy who has ben mourning his girlfriend for over 6 months. One of the things he says is that after all that sadness and grief towards the end of the process that's all you have left of that person.
The pain and grief becomes that one last link you have to that person you loved. And letting that go is like the final frontier. And it is sad.
Your post made me think about that part of the movie.
It's ok to be melancholy.
I know how you feel. Letting go is sad, hard and heartbreaking.
It is a weird feeling. I was very in love with my last long term relationship, when I realized I wasn't in love anymore, for me was more of a relief, but I know it's different for you.
I finished Great Lion of God - it was excellent. ;)
Good to hear, I'll have to pick that up.
::I don't regret
I was just about to start a discussion on how hard Valentines day has been, when I read your post.
Have you seen the movie Swingers?
Toward the end of the movie this guy is having a heart to heart with this guy who has ben mourning his girlfriend for over 6 months.
One of the things he says is that after all that sadness and grief towards the end of the process that's all you have left of that person.
The pain and grief becomes that one last link you have to that person you loved. And letting that go is like the final frontier. And it is sad.
Your post made me think about that part of the movie.
It's ok to be melancholy.
I know how you feel. Letting go is sad, hard and heartbreaking.
But you are doing great ;)
From the sound of it your ex probably has not moved on yet if he is calling 5x a week just to say hi.
thats funny you brought that up, I was telling a friend about this last weekend and he mentioned that scene in the movie as well.
rossjack
thank so much for your words, its been a rough day.
hey rossjack
I found the clip for you on youtube!
It's brilliant, there's a lot of profanity, so head's up: but enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8slB-mYCPw&feature=related