Feels like another knife in the gut.....
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Feels like another knife in the gut.....
| Thu, 07-27-2006 - 12:29pm |
deleted 7/27/2006 2:03 pm ET by flowergirl7
Edited 7/27/2006 4:30 pm ET by flowergirl7
Edited 7/27/2006 4:30 pm ET by flowergirl7

First things first...just a word to the wise--you might want to edit your post to take out the f word. Even masked profanity is a violation of Ivillage rules so your post could be removed.
As for the substance of your post--I think your best bet is to get into counseling with someone who focuses on cognitive behavior therapy. That's exactly what that type of therapy focuses on--changing your thought patterns as a means to changing your behavior patterns.
And IMO, it won't do any good to email him with your thoughts...he doesn't care, and you will hurt yourself by having contact! The only way to get closure is to ACCEPT, in your heart and bones, that he's not right for you. That's a process and it requires no contact.
Sheri