Finding Out He Was Married...

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Registered: 03-06-2006
Finding Out He Was Married...
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 2:27pm

Hi,

I was the other woman & didn't even know it. How dum I feel now but I'm actually ok because I suspected some things & it was definitely confirmed. Sometimes you have to be taught a harsh lesson but trust me I learned to listen to my gut instincts from this point on. The guy was married, probably separated from his wife for a minute & went back to her at my emotional expense. Word of advide listen to your hearts & gut instincts. Needless to say we dealt for over a year...Any words of support??

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 2:53pm

Wow, that's terrible. I've been lied to by a couple exes, but not to that degree.

Yes, it's important to trust your gut...easier said than done, however, when you don't want to believe what it's telling you.

Sheri

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Registered: 10-19-2005
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 3:10pm
Warn other women about him at DontDateHimGirl.com
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Registered: 03-23-2006
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 10:37am
Join the club. I dated this guy for a while and things were going fine until I had a feeling he was married. I just knew it. It turned out he was indeed married and had a 2 year old son in California. I dumped him in 2 seconds. We still talk to this day and he's divorced now. He begs me to take him back. What makes he think I am going to give him a second chance? Once a cheater and a liar, always a cheater and a liar.