First Relationship Ending
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| Mon, 07-09-2007 - 1:58pm |
Hi everyone,
This is my first post, so Hi everyone! Well my problem is this; My girlfriend and I have been having a few problems lately and tonight we had a blazing row, which I basically started. I'm starting to feel a little bitter with her attitude and her actions, I know there are always two sides to a story but she is taking advantage of me big-time! I look after her really well, (or the best I can) I hold down a full-time job, whereas she sits around doing nothing. I have asked her in the nicest possible way several times to get a part-time job just to help out but she wont because she doesnt "like where she is living".
You see we met at University and after we had finished the course we decided to move to my home town instead of hers as there are more job opportunities around. She hasn't really adapted well and has made no friends really. This is another reason why I am annoyed as you only become acquainted with people by familiarising yourself with the people and the area that you live.
She keeps bugging me to buy her a dog, but I see little point in spending all that money when she isn't capable of looking after herself, I know who would end up taking it out for walks and getting up at 6am at the weekend to feed it...So yeah, this has been a major point of conflict aswell.
Despite all this I do really love her but I am starting to think with my brain now, it just seems we want completely different things and we are both too stubborn to compromise. Its just really hard to let go of your first love and there seems to be a lingering fear that I will never find someone like this again.
Overall breakup is probably the best option for both of us, but we have broken up several times and made up countless times, I really could do with a little advice as to how to handle this problem from someone with experience on this matter.
Thanks for reading,
K.

Welcome to the board darthkurdt,
::but she wont because she doesnt "like where she is living".
If she doesn't like where she is living, then she needs to move.