flame all gone

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Registered: 11-15-2006
flame all gone
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Thu, 12-28-2006 - 11:06pm
Ive been married 2 years, and have a son with my husband. But I just seemed to have lost my love for him. its very sad and there are many reasons why. He wasn't the person I thought he was, We didn't date long enough before we got married(4 months)we have just grown apart, he's a liar, I can't trust him etc. I still love him as a friend and the father of our child, but some nights I dont even want to kiss him. I dont want to break his heart, but I'm not happy. And people don't change, so I dont want to stay in a relationship that I'm not happy in. I've tried everything, we go on dates, we went on vacation, we bond with our son. I've torn myself to pieces over this but I can't deny who he really is and who I'am. So if you have been in my boat, I would love the advice. And yes, i know we should stay together for our baby, but i believe that if I stay with him to raise our son, I will resent him, and it won't be a healthy home to grow up in anyway.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 11:55am

Try two different books:


1. Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum.

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