Found out Ex got married, moving on

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Registered: 04-22-2006
Found out Ex got married, moving on
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Sat, 05-06-2006 - 10:31am

I need advice on how to get over my Ex completely. I found out he got married, and it is been very hard on me. I am wondering what is the best way to get over him. I see things that remind me of him every day all day long and it is really not helping me.

Thanks.

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Sat, 05-06-2006 - 3:58pm

Sit down and write out a list of all the bad things about him, and the reasons you broke up. Then, laminate the list if you need to, and carry it around with you. When you start to feel sorry for yourself and romanticize and gloss over reality of what was, you can take out the list, the truth of what it was.

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Registered: 01-31-2006
Mon, 05-08-2006 - 3:22pm

hi uniquleykim

anyways i'm so curuios how long ago that you guys stop dating or been broke up? can you give us some idea thanks

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Registered: 04-22-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 6:43am
We have been apart 3 years. The guys that I have dated since him haven't been anything close to what I would like in a mate.
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 1:57pm

i'm so sorry for what happen dear...about the guy you been dating. i'm assuming that your not totally inlove with this guy or maybe his not really showing his feeling thats why you still feel insecure about your exbf. you know what actually you have similar story like mine that my first love get married...but actually we been apart for about 6yrs.

he got married with the girl he dated after me. i dont love him anymore but i dont know why when i saw his wedding pictures in his friendster. i feel a little bit pain in my heart. but i'm totally happy for him. i broke up with that guy coz somehow he push me while were having arguments. i dont like guys hurting me at all. so since then for some reason he has something against me..its seem that i'm the one who did something bad to him. the girl also act that she hated me. but who cares..i didnt do anything bad to them right.

about your situation with your relationship right now...i mean if your not totally satisfied with that man. you have to move on. what about you? you need to be happy also and find the right person for you. also forget about your past. past is past we cannot change that anymore. actually were the one doing are future so we dont have anybody to blame on...right? so its better to do things that make us happier.

life is unfair sometimes. to be honest i thought that my first love is my destiny/soul mate. coz for some reason i already met him in my dreams before i saw him in person..do you believe me on that..its sound crazy but its true. i'm assuming thats why i never find the right man coz i send away my soulmate.

well we never know right. i'm not expecting for him to come back coz his not welcome anymore..coz his been trying to come back that time but its too late i warn him not to harm me but he did...so thats it!

but dont worry my dear we will find THAT RIGHT MAN!!! WE JUST NEED TO EXPOSE OURSELF hehehehe!!!

good luck

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Registered: 08-30-2005
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 6:38am
if you really want to get over your ex completely..first thing you must do is to get rid of the things that remind you of him...what is it that you are still holding on to?? he got married and obviously he has moved on..and you must move on too...i know its hard but you have to be strong.....god bless!!!