Fran's story about her break up
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| Wed, 10-20-2004 - 4:40pm |
Hello my name is Fran I am new here so bare with me. Here is my story on how my breakup came true. Sit down, grab a drink this is a long one.
At first I was going with an older man. He was 20 years older than me. His name was Mikey. We met online. At that time he was 52 and I was 32. We had fun together. He took me to a C/O Beach. It was there he took pictures of me. I know alarm bells should of rung but I did not hear them. He posted my pictures online at a Nudist/Naturism Site. And we went to a few Nudist Resorts. We parted ways.
In comes Norm a man 7 years older. Norm and I started dating. Then it happened, my sister who owns this computer and my parents found out about my pictures being online and they hit the roof. Oneday while I was out with Norm my family searched my room and found a book. This book was a binder filled with these jokes and cartoons that are kind of riskey and off the wall and toilet humour. When I came home the poop hit the fan. They accused Norm of being a bad guy and accused him as being the one that put my pictures online. Even after I said it was not him it was Mikey they still did not hear me.
My family means well I am sure but they can be a little too what's the word that I am looking for I know the word is.....overbearing. You see I am the youngest and they all feel it necessary to baby me and monitor my every move. They need to know where I am going, when I will be coming home, and who calls me on the phone. My sisters are a tad to nosey for their own good.
The only request Norm had was to meet my whole family and to join in on a holiday events like Christmas and Thanksgiving.
Granted my parents did have Norm over for lunch and they were pleasant. Then after lunch they both took off. And when Norm and I were walking down the street both my mom and sister saw us and they raced inside the house and slammed the door. That was embarrassing.
I had requested time and time again that Norm be invited over for dinner and partake in a holiday gathering but nothing materialized. Norm has no family just an aunt and he never had much of a family so I wanted to give him that but my family didn't. My sister said, "If he comes over I am leaving" They just did not like him one bit.
Norm wrote a note. He accused my family of using me as a pawn in a tug o war and that they (my family) are cowards for not saying to Norms face what they have against him. Norm also said that my family is too controlling of me. They all would not even meet him. I have tried countless times to get my family to have him over and to get to know him and try and mend the riff. But 6 years later the riff is still here.
Norm and I tried everything. He even proposed to me with ring and all. Still nothing from my family Norm tried so hard to mend the fence but my family would not budge.
Finally after six years Norm could not take it anymore of me being caught in the middle of the tug o war that he broke it off with me. So here I am 38 years of age and once again lonely and living with a broken heart.

Well Norm and I are working things out. We just cannot stand being apart from eachother. There are issues that we have to work through IE My family disliking Norm but we are on the road to somewhere.
Peace
Fran