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| Thu, 01-11-2007 - 8:45pm |
OMG. OK So I was on MySpace earlier minding my own business (for the most part) and my ex sends me a friend request and writes to say what's up?
OK, this Sat will be the 4th time I have arranged with him to drop my stuff off at my friend's house so yesterday when he sent me a txt I left him have it. I told him the following:
Thanks and have a great life. You will search for a very
long time to find someone who loves you as I grew to *****. When your business thrives in the future, be sure that you ask yourself the same
questions of the woman in your life as you've asked of me, materialistic,
etc. All I ever did was love you and want the best for you. The times I
acted out at you were due to feeling hurt by you and it could have been
worked out if you wanted it to. Just remember that you were the one
who walked out on me and I am the best woman that you could have ever
had in your life.
So I ask you ladies, WHY after getting a txt msg from me like this would he send me over a friend request?! I had sent a friend of his who has a bday coming up a msg on MySpace wishing him a happy bday. Never heard anything from his friend but I get a friend request from him?
Just seems really WEIRD to me. If you know an ex isn't over you and has basically poured her heart out to you, why on earth would you try to keep in contact so soon?
Def a shock to me.
Let me hear you ladies (and guys too would be great ;) )
L

Yeah, that's definitely odd behavior. I don't know him at all, so everything I say is complete conjecture. But maybe he was flattered by the text. He's like, "Hey, this girl obviously still has feelings for me." It's easy to overlook a message delivered in anger if you know it's because the other person is still hurt. What I don't understand is why he would make overtures at this point, as that is only confusing and makes it harder for you to move on. Maybe he doesn't get that space is required right now, or doesn't care.
So did you add him?
nope, no add. I am leaving him hanging the way he did me before I came back and said this is a break up not a break :P HE is the one who wanted space so WHY is he trying to get added to MINE? (pun intended :) )
You love someone one minute, need space the next, then try and get added to someone's page? Freaking weird. He seems very confused to me and I can't allow him to cloud my judgement right now. It's just too soon.
I am going to leave him hanging for awhile. I can't figure out if maybe he is just nosey about my profile you know? I don't want to read anything into it. It's just weird to me.
I told him earlier this week that I wish we could just start over. But I'll tell you one thing, it would take more than a friend request for me to get past what has happened.
Carrie