Friends with EX?
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| Tue, 02-01-2005 - 6:02pm |
Here is the deal. My ex and I tried to get back together but there were some lingering trust issues on her part that ultimately prevented this from happening. I don't really blame her and I am not upset with her.
We had dinner this week, when she told me she had met someone new at work. She seemed like she liked this guy, etc. She then said she wanted to remain friends with me, etc. Even though I was expecting this I was in a little bit of shock so I said sure whatever.
So she emails me yesterday saying that she really still cares for me and wants to remain friends forever. I replied back with sure, whatever. This morning she called a mutual friend of ours who I worked with and was grilling her for information on me, like who I was currently seeing, was I going out and dating ,etc. In my mind I cannot reconcile why she would even care, I mean she already found someone so why go behind my back to find out what I am up to.
Anyways, I have come to the decision that I don't really want to remain friends with her at this time. I don't feel that she properly gave the relationship a second chance and I just can't deal with her with someone new at this time.
How do I let her know this? Should I just ignore her emails, calls, etc. from now on or should I just email her and let her know that I'm not ready to be friends right now?

The latter...email her and let her know.
Sheri