g-f broke up with me on x-mas
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| Tue, 12-26-2006 - 11:10am |
Well, her reasoning is I message a women on myspace in which i complimented her for being single mother and putting her son first. she also got mad at me for goign with my son and my sons mother out snowboarding cuz i really wanted to see my son snowboard for the first time! i even called her twice to ask her if it was okay.. which i think is dumb in the first place i also called her many of times while snowboarding with my sons mother right in front of me. so i guess i f'ed up. that is what a good guy gets.
the long distance relationship and the fact i have a kid doesn't work for her. funny enough she is still married no dry ink yet and has hangout with her ex many of times who wants to get back with her and trys to have sex with her on a daily basis unlike my sons mother.. it was wrong for me to go over my sons mothers house to have thanksgiving.
if you read this thanks for your time in doing so! you know as a man we just don't talk about this crap with anyone or anyone at all.

Hon, the relationship was doomed from the start. You were dating a married woman who has issues and a great baggage. She didn't like the fact that you had a son and such. It's her problem. Top top it all off, she seems controlling and jealous of her shadow; she wants to control your actions from far away. Were you afraid of her reaction? Why do you have to ask for permission to see your kid OR go snowboarding? The LD doesn't help at all. You cannot get to know a person from the far.
I know you're hurting, but this the best thing that could happened to you. Can you imagine her demeaning behavior toward you and your son IF you kept on dating this woman? She's divorcing for a reason and it is very clear which one it is.
well her ex-husband was an ass and controling she like to own the pants in the a relationship.
she just one of those girls that need a guy to be there at her beck and calling. that involves sex, money, emotional needs... the perfect guy. she is a very veyr good looking girl and thinks she can get it.
well to be honest...i'll be pissed too...lol
cuz esp if this gf of yours is a jealous type of girl just like me and if she had bad experience on her past relationship about ex's problem...FOR US IS A RED FLAG!!!
ANYWAYS IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER...LOWER YOUR PRIDE ASK HER BACK...BESIDE ON WOMEN PROSPECTIVE WE WILL NEVER FEEL JEALOUS IF WE KNOW THAT WE ARE 100% SECURE TO OUR PARTNER...GOOD LUCK!!!!
Keep this woman out of your life. Lovers come and go but your children are forever. If she doesn't like the fact that your son is priority then she is not the one for you.
I say good riddence!
dude, it's easier said then done, but you will get over it. positive self talk helps. being aware of what your feeding yourself helps. having a temporarily developed alter ego stressing all your good points helps. Remember that movie in which vince vaughn is always saying mikey your so money!-you better start to believe that of yourself and nothing else.
Dont think on it now, work on yourself now. Do all those things you've been meaning to do or make a list and start even though everyone hates starting. make sure you DO NOT see her as the reward after some of your goals are met. When you get yourself back on up-go ahead and reflect back. give it 90 days and run it like militqary operation.it won't mean nothing if you've built yourself strong and correct. I'm not saying to ignore your feelings, I'm just saying to put them aside temprorarily-but definitely do reflect back later, because you dont want these wounds to turn into irrational beliefs.
trust me I'm exactly where your at-so i'm with you bro- YOU ARE SO MONEY!
Susan
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