GET HIM BACK?

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Registered: 03-02-2008
GET HIM BACK?
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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 5:38pm

Hi everyone,

I have been doing my own thing and my bf has been doing his own thing since he said he wanted to break up a couple of weeks ago. (Actually he was doing his own thing before, too) But, I sort of thought it would blow over after awhile (he has issues and has done this several times). Instead, he is spending less and less time at home (we live together) and calling me less and less. Sometimes I dont see or hear from him for days. I really did not see this coming at all. We had planned a future together, just moved, etc. It seemed to come after he met some girl who he seems to be not even seeing seriously (if at all)?! I want to know what to do or how to act so that I can let him know that it would be better if he stayed with me...how do I do that?

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 8:23pm

Go out and do your own thing......... go to the gym, on a walk, to a movie etc.. and don't call him.....let him miss you.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 1:36pm

bballsweety32,


I'm kind of confused, you've written that he's unhealthy.....

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Registered: 03-02-2008
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 6:28pm
Yup I know my previous posts, and I am seeing a DV counselor for the past 8 months. As long as he takes his meds properly he is fine.