get him back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2005
get him back?
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 4:39pm

I know it may not be the best idea, but please keep in mind that I really really want this guy back.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me for basically no reason at all. He is just too busy with other things right now. My question is how do I make him realize he made a mistake? I am so in love, and he still has strong feelings for me too. It's been almost a month since he broke up with me, and I haven't really spoken to him since.

So my question is: does "absence make the heart grow fonder" or is it "out of sight out of mind"

He really wants to remain friends so will I get him back more by keeping him in my life and giving him a constant reminder of why he misses me. Or shutting him out completely and letting him realize he misses me that way? I sort of feel like if we don't talk he will just forget about me.

Thanks for the advice.

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:12pm
I've been where you are...heck I think most people on this board have been where you are at some point.
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Registered: 11-02-2004
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 4:25am
I've been hoping the same thing, I think thats really the only reason I stayed friends with him, just so I would have a chance. But my question to you would be has he found someone new yet? if thats the case I wouldn't waste my time hoping to get back together cause mine has already found another girl after 2 weeks! I dunno.. just dont get your hopes up because it hurts 10 times worse when you get rejected the 2nd time around.