To Give or not to give

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2005
To Give or not to give
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Wed, 11-23-2005 - 12:19am

I was seeing this guy. He is great but I was not doing very well emotionally at the time. I allowed a friend (now a former friend) of mine to convince me that my guy didnt want to be with me. I screwed up and told him that she had said this and if it was true to just tell me. We went through a period of not talking. Then we ran into each other at the local pub. I told him that I realized that he did want to be with me and that I dumped the so called friend. He said he was proud of me and that he tried to be friends with her but couldnt. I didnt tell him but I knew from the beginning that they would never be friends. So now I dont know if we are still a couple or not. In my mind and physically I have moved on but he is still in my heart. Today I was looking for a file on my computer and found some pictures of us. I also found some pictures of his that he might want.

My question is...do I still wait for him to call me or can I call him and tell him that I have these pictures for him? Or should I just drop them off at his place this weekend?? (He will be out of town all weekend). Or maybe I should give it some more time? Its been a month since we last talked.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-23-2005 - 11:22am

storey c...

PG's 2 cents:

If the pictures are no longer important to you....drop 'em off this weekend...and have no more thoughts about the man. If you're not willing to let go of them 100% (both in your hands and in your head)...then keep 'em!

NO CONTACT BEYOND THIS! It's up to him to decide if you mean anything at all!

Best wishes and warm thoughts...

Pianoguy