Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC
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Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC
| Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:43pm |
I've decided against everyone elses advice, that I just cant do it.
| Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:43pm |
I've decided against everyone elses advice, that I just cant do it.
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I changed my whole plan of thinking and contacted him on Friday.
Have you heard from him since sending it? How are you doing since then?
I've been thinking of you
oops, you answered my question. Do you think you will move forward with NC now? Do you feel like you got the closure you needed?
Edited 1/7/2008 2:51 pm ET by mdrsfr
Daisy,
Now that you contacted him on friday and sent him that email on saturday now its time to put No Contact in place.
I totally admit i had a big long sigh after reading that. I would be lying too if i said that I didn't have thoughts that my ex would come back to me too, but the more time that passes of NC, the more I move towards accpetance. I don't have to like it, in fact I hate it, but it is what is. Maybe it's true that your ex still loves you, but that has nothing to do with the fact that you may not be right for each other. When i broke up with my first long term bf, I still "loved him" but I knew we were going in different directions in our lives. He couldn't see AT ALL that we were going in different directions. I was in shock that he could not see this.
you are going to continue doing what you're doing I think and this will be a much longer process for you. But sometimes you need to go through this and not take other people's advice...that's part of growing up.
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