Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC

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Registered: 02-21-2007
Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC
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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:43pm

I've decided against everyone elses advice, that I just cant do it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 10:07am
I've never denied being still caught up in it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2005
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 1:41pm
So did you send it?

 

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Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:22pm

I changed my whole plan of thinking and contacted him on Friday.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:38pm

Have you heard from him since sending it? How are you doing since then?


I've been thinking of you

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:49pm
Thanks for the thoughts.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2005
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:49pm

oops, you answered my question. Do you think you will move forward with NC now? Do you feel like you got the closure you needed?




Edited 1/7/2008 2:51 pm ET by mdrsfr

 

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Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:51pm
I assume you sent this before my last response posted?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 5:23pm

Daisy,


Now that you contacted him on friday and sent him that email on saturday now its time to put No Contact in place.

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Registered: 02-21-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 5:40pm
I wont be making contact with him, but that doesnt mean that I have given up the hope that he will come back.
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Registered: 02-23-2005
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 6:35pm

I totally admit i had a big long sigh after reading that. I would be lying too if i said that I didn't have thoughts that my ex would come back to me too, but the more time that passes of NC, the more I move towards accpetance. I don't have to like it, in fact I hate it, but it is what is. Maybe it's true that your ex still loves you, but that has nothing to do with the fact that you may not be right for each other. When i broke up with my first long term bf, I still "loved him" but I knew we were going in different directions in our lives. He couldn't see AT ALL that we were going in different directions. I was in shock that he could not see this.


you are going to continue doing what you're doing I think and this will be a much longer process for you. But sometimes you need to go through this and not take other people's advice...that's part of growing up.

 

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