Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC
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Giving it until Sunday, then breaking NC
| Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:43pm |
I've decided against everyone elses advice, that I just cant do it.
| Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:43pm |
I've decided against everyone elses advice, that I just cant do it.
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Daisy,
it takes more than 3 weeks- it takes months. But don't despair because you are over the worst and from here there are little steps every single day, some you just dont notice.
I also fear for someone who waits for someone who has already rejected them to come back and make them happy OR anyone who just sits around waiting for someone else to make them feel better.
The ONLY one you can depend on for your happiness is YOU.
Im not about to not go on Saturday.
You know, we are here for ADVICE and support. Reading through the posts, you've gotten very much support, even when the posters don't necessarily agree with your decisions, and some damn good advice. No one here wants you to substitute their advice for your own judgment but it seems to me that when advice is given, your first response is to be defensive. I wasn't suggesting you not go to your function, but simply stating my opinion that by seeing him, you will lose any ground you may have gained in the past few weeks.
I understand that it is therapeutic to vent your feelings, so I hope you continue to do so. But I truly hope you try another strategy other than waiting around on him. You say you are feeling so terribly miserable. So why not TRY to begin to move on and see what that's like. It couldn't be any worse, could it?
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