This goes away, right?

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Registered: 03-02-2006
This goes away, right?
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Sat, 11-18-2006 - 12:58am
So it's been a few weeks since me and my ex broke up. Is it normal for me to have this huge imagining in my mind of him changing and acting like a real man and everything will turn out happily ever after, even though i KNOW in REALITY that he NEVER will and it won't be happily ever after with him? These thoughts do go away, right? SOON, right? lol
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Sat, 11-18-2006 - 1:03am

Yes, it's normal, and yes it will go away...can't say for sure that it'll be soon though, sorry. But if you focus on accepting that he is how he is and he's not going to change every time you thought to have those thoughts, it'll happen sooner.

Sheri

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Registered: 11-12-2006
Sat, 11-18-2006 - 1:03pm
I feel the same way, hon . . . I just wish he would get his act together so I didn't have to leave him :(