Going crazy with emotions

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Registered: 03-08-2007
Going crazy with emotions
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Tue, 03-20-2007 - 12:37pm


I am finding it hard not to contact her. I keep coming up with ideas on how to 'win her back'. We both have kids and the kids are involved ( my daughter and I lived in her house for over a year with her and her two kids ).
She broke up with me last month and, according to friends, she's never been happier. I, on the other hand, am so totally miserable. The kids keep wanting to be together and so, her kids come to visit my daughter and vise versa. Each time I see her, I get all upset and hurt. I don't want to tell the kids that they can't see each other.

Rob

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Registered: 11-28-2006
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 12:57pm
So sorry for your situation, Rob. No contact is hard, and as you can see from earlier posts some of us haven't been doing such a great job with it -- me included. If she's happy, it seems unlikely that you're going to win her back. The best thing you can do is work on healing your broken heart and moving on. I suppose suggesting that you paint your toenails rather than call her is out of the question -- joking. Can you get involved in going to the gym or a sports league or something to get you out of the house and doing something other than thinking about her?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-20-2007 - 1:55pm

Hi Rob,


Here's your other post so others can catch up on your story:


I'm sick to my stomach


Vent your emotions on paper, as often as necessary.