Going to Get My Things

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Registered: 02-16-2008
Going to Get My Things
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Tue, 03-04-2008 - 10:47am

This afternoon, I have to go and get my things from his apartment. He said no more putting it off and it's time to come get it now. It's been almost a month since I've seen him and I'm sick over going.

How do I maintain my composure? How do I keep myself from begging him to change his mind?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 03-04-2008 - 12:21pm

One suggestion would be to bring a friend with you.


Another would be to ask him to meet you at a Starbucks or something (have him put your things in a bag and bring them) rather than going to his place.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-04-2008 - 12:44pm

If you can't take a friend or meet in public, talk to yourself all the way there - give yourself permission to break down AFTER you get through it.