Good article to read on Being Dumped

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2005
Good article to read on Being Dumped
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Sun, 10-09-2005 - 7:57pm
Came across this, it helped give me a bit of insight as to the mind of the dumper. Hope it helps...
http://www.topdatingtips.com/getting-dumped.htm
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 9:20pm
Great article. Too bad knowing you are better off without them doesn't make it hurt any less.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 9:23pm

I know.. why is it that we can hate everything about a person... but still love them so much it hurts?

Thanks for the link to the article, I found a lot of truth in it. I think it is better to know the truth to have to sit around & wonder what went wrong. It's even worse when the person blames it all on you, even though it was really them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 10:56pm

OMG! Thank you so much for posting that article. It was so enlightening and in a lot of ways it made me feel so much better. I printed it because I don't think reading it once is enough. I will read it everytime I start to feel the pain coming on, everytime I want to contact my ex.

Ironically at the end of the article the writer suggests getting a new job and that is exactly what I have been venturing in the last few weeks. I have been at my job for 9 years and was starting to get bored, with the breakup and emotional state of my relationship I decided that a new job would be a nice distraction. New people to meet and a new job to learn and put all my energy in.

Thank you again, that article was great!

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