Good article to read on Being Dumped
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Good article to read on Being Dumped
| Sun, 10-09-2005 - 7:57pm |
Came across this, it helped give me a bit of insight as to the mind of the dumper. Hope it helps...
http://www.topdatingtips.com/getting-dumped.htm
http://www.topdatingtips.com/getting-dumped.htm

I know.. why is it that we can hate everything about a person... but still love them so much it hurts?
Thanks for the link to the article, I found a lot of truth in it. I think it is better to know the truth to have to sit around & wonder what went wrong. It's even worse when the person blames it all on you, even though it was really them.
OMG! Thank you so much for posting that article. It was so enlightening and in a lot of ways it made me feel so much better. I printed it because I don't think reading it once is enough. I will read it everytime I start to feel the pain coming on, everytime I want to contact my ex.
Ironically at the end of the article the writer suggests getting a new job and that is exactly what I have been venturing in the last few weeks. I have been at my job for 9 years and was starting to get bored, with the breakup and emotional state of my relationship I decided that a new job would be a nice distraction. New people to meet and a new job to learn and put all my energy in.
Thank you again, that article was great!
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