got cheated on duno what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-18-2006
got cheated on duno what to do
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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 11:14pm
well this is my first time on.
i am 22 and have been married almost 3 years. last week i found out my husband was trying to get w/ other girls. so i left him. for a week. then when i tried to take him back he a cussed me of doing it too. *sigh* i duno what to do i wanna be with him but i just can't do it any more. any and all advise is much apreciated
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 9:05am
I'm so sorry you are having this hard time, I'm sure that one of the wonderful members here will be along soon to reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 12:51pm

He accused you? Hmm, because he knows he was wrong but doesn't want to take responsibility for it. It's easier to put you on the defense.

You may have to give him some time to miss you and decide what he really wants. If he decides he wants to make it work, then the two of you should consider counseling.


Carrie