Thanks Claudia...I assume what your telling me by Tough Stuff is that I have and have had alot to deal with....and if so yes I have, but I put myself there, I allowed it and Im ashamed of myself for it.
Hugs... and I feel your pain. I know what you mean about a feeling of relief that you don't have to wonder why he's not calling and when you'll spend time together again. I was dumped last tuesday morning and had no contact... then yesterday I say his truck at mcdonalds... I went it and him and his daughter (a child I've loved for 6 years since she was a baby) were having lunch. It was her birthday so I said, with a big smile, "Hi, I just wanted to come in and say happy birthday and see if you got the necklace and card I left at your grandmas"...he was nice and I asked him a question about the cell phone situation and then I just got up and said "well, I gotta go" I kissed her on the top on the head and told her I loved her and quickly put my cheek to his and said "bye" ... he said "bye hon".
Then I broke down in the car...I don't know if it was a good thing to do or not.
Wow, Deb...this is tough stuff. Wow.
You're doing great. When you read this, it will be day 6.
Congratulations on another day!
What is the outfit like?
Hang in there,
Claudia
Thanks Claudia...I assume what your telling me by Tough Stuff is that I have and have had alot to deal with....and if so yes I have, but I put myself there, I allowed it and Im ashamed of myself for it.
Nice! And I think rewarding yourself at 2 weeks is a great idea!
Yeah, I think the stuff you are dealing with is tough. I would have a very difficult time coping with two-timing. Ickiness...
Claudia
Hugs... and I feel your pain. I know what you mean about a feeling of relief that you don't have to wonder why he's not calling and when you'll spend time together again. I was dumped last tuesday morning and had no contact... then yesterday I say his truck at mcdonalds... I went it and him and his daughter (a child I've loved for 6 years since she was a baby) were having lunch. It was her birthday so I said, with a big smile, "Hi, I just wanted to come in and say happy birthday and see if you got the necklace and card I left at your grandmas"...he was nice and I asked him a question about the cell phone situation and then I just got up and said "well, I gotta go" I kissed her on the top on the head and told her I loved her and quickly put my cheek to his and said "bye" ... he said "bye hon".
Then I broke down in the car...I don't know if it was a good thing to do or not.
Tracey