this has got to be a bad dream...right

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Registered: 12-10-2007
this has got to be a bad dream...right
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Sun, 03-23-2008 - 9:26am
I continue to ask myself...how in the world did I find myself in this mess... Well, last night I ended up running into my ex best friend's ex fiance...(the one she dumped to be with my ex fiance) We ended up talking, and I told him pretty much everything about how she had cheated on him back in the summer with a few guys, and I guess i should of told him sooner, but really my loyalty was to her, but I was still sorry for the hurt she had caused. Well, an hour later... I get a call from her... I'm every name in the book.. Like I made her sleep around..Up until now I haven't really done anything for anyone to be mad at me for... But I'm the crazy one. She continued to tell me about how wonderful my ex fiance is and he's great in bed... I told her I hope you don't think I told her ex because I miss mine.. I'm not sure what I miss more about mine, the fact that he couldnt hold a job, or maybe it was the fact that he never paid his bills, or maybe it was even the fact that he lied about everything and was abusive...It was all very frusterating, however, I don't think Ive been called so many vulgar names in my life lol... Now, I just wish I'd stop thinking about it, because I was content when my mind was clear of them...sigh





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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 03-23-2008 - 12:27pm
And you let her talk to you that way?
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Mon, 03-24-2008 - 11:15am

only thing i can write to say here is ... thank god you realized this now vs later (i.e. married to the a-hole).