Has This Happened to Anyone Else?

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Registered: 08-31-2005
Has This Happened to Anyone Else?
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Sun, 04-27-2008 - 12:39pm

My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up a month ago. The last couple of weeks I felt like I have been doing better. I even saw the faint glimmer of happy on the horizon.

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Registered: 02-25-2008
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 11:42pm
Hear hear workinggirl! We all need to think that-- these men who did that are SO not worthy of us! I have been feeling horrible since I talked to my ex 4 days ago but I am beginning to see the light. HE IS NOT WORTHY OF MY LOVE. If he was so able to get rid of it, I need to stop putting my energy into him. I will find a man who would move mountains for me if I should any inclination to do so. This ex wouldn't and I am leaving him at the door now. Thanks for making my night!
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Registered: 10-22-2001
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 2:39pm

His drinking has NOTHING to do with you neither does his sobriety.


I know what it is like to love someone who is an alcoholic and have been in relationships where we broke up over it and then they stopped.


One of my ex's said he stopped because of me but I don't buy it and it doesn't matter.


He could be waiting for you to call but there are many others here who don't hear from their ex's.


One of the deal-breakers for me is someone who lies.


It is probably something that I just know I cannot tolerate in a relationship.


Hugs hon you are just hurting right now and that is to be expected.


Sometimes it doesn't hit us all at once but sneaks up on us.


Just know others here do understand.


Take care!


It will get better...it does take time and a little tlc...for you.


Nightangel

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