Haste makes waste? Help!

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Haste makes waste? Help!
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 8:36pm
My breakup was last week. I live in his place. He is staying somewhere else for another several days so we don't have to be around each other (ouch). I started a life in LA planning to bring my kids out from Utah when I was stable. Now I need to quit my good job and move back. I don't want to be without the kids. My question is--Do I pack up and drive back before he gets back so we don't see each other, or do I stay in this one bedroom apartment with him for a few months (he reluctantly agreed to let me stay if I get a mattress for the living room until June 30) so that I can save some money to help with my transition back to Utah. I will literally have nothing--no bed, job, etc. Not sure what the sanest thing to do is.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Sat, 04-29-2006 - 12:18pm
DO you have a job where you are now?
Can you stand to be away from your kids for another month?


Carrie