Have I got let go now? Or is there hope?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Have I got let go now? Or is there hope?
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Wed, 11-21-2007 - 7:26am

Hello,


I have just finished with my BF and feel like I need some advice on getting over it if anyone is willing to read on.


To put you in the picture I'll start from the beginning:


We met in the local pub where I work. He is 10 years older than me..me 27 he 37. We hadnt been seeing each other long when he told me he was falling in love with me. I felt the same. I have had serious relationships in the apst, the last being 7 years long but had never felt this way before. He was constantly telling me how he couldnt believe how he felt about me and even though he had been married before, he had never felt as right about anything in his life. I was his world and he used to ask me everyday to never leave him. He was my dream come true and we were like peas in a pod. We would say how happy we were all the time...so much that I couldnt believe how I felt. When elderly people say 'you know when you ve met the one!!' I never understood this til now... and I KNEW he was my 'one'. We moved in together at his request quite soon really. But we were happy and it felt right...and this went on for

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2006
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 9:29am

He has the signs of an abuser.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 9:45am

Honey, walk away and don't look back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 12:24pm

Welcome to the board poppet2007,


Here's the link to the abuse board - Recognizing & Dealing with Domestic Abuse


You are dealing with a verbablly abusive, alcoholic.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 1:02pm

Thank you for reading mypost everyone!!


Do you really think he has abused me....he has been so soft til now and a lovely person. I dnt agree with how he has treated me... but I feel scared to think

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2006
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 3:20pm

He is most definitely an abuser, name calling, degrading hurtful nasty words are abuse.


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