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Having a major breakdown
| Wed, 05-04-2005 - 3:47pm |
Holy cow I don't know how much more of this I can stand!!! I am so stressed out right now I can't even think straight.:( I am still staying at his house, he is "letting" me stay there until Sunday. I am going to work and trying to get as much stuff done at home as far as packing in the evening. He helped me with some of the big stuff last night and I still have a couch and some other big stuff that has to be moved and I have no room in "his" trailer for it. So I am sleeping on the couch and have basically my clothes and bathroom stuff so I can go to work. The house where I am moving to is still not available, the girl that lives there bought a house and she hasn't moved yet and might not until the 10th or the 15th. I have 2 dogs and a cat, plus a fish tank that I have to take care of. I am planning on boarding the dogs and me and the cat will stay with my mom until the house opens up. He helps me by shoving my stuff around and making more room in the trailer so we can get my stuff packed. I know he wants me out of there and I don't want to be there either but this is just too much to handle! I know I have said a lot of this in my previous posts, I'm sorry for rambling or repeating myself. I am just so screwed up in my head right now. He will not give me any more time at the house and he doesn't understand that it is going to take more than one trip to move me! He thinks he can get it all done in one trip and then he is done. I am not thinking rationally and know that he probably doesn't owe me anything since he is the one who ended it and it is his house, but it just really hurts to have him be so mean and unconcerned with this whole situation.
He has been to the bar every night since last Thursday night and comes home and rags on me for having a few beers at home. He is going out with his friends this weekend and I am teetering on the edge here. I hate this!! I don't know how much more I can stand. And to top it all off, one of our "mutual" friends is telling him what's wrong with me! I have been having some female pains and she told him that I have "female blue balls!" I can't believe this is happenening to me.
Thanks for letting me vent. Sorry to repeat myself.
He has been to the bar every night since last Thursday night and comes home and rags on me for having a few beers at home. He is going out with his friends this weekend and I am teetering on the edge here. I hate this!! I don't know how much more I can stand. And to top it all off, one of our "mutual" friends is telling him what's wrong with me! I have been having some female pains and she told him that I have "female blue balls!" I can't believe this is happenening to me.
Thanks for letting me vent. Sorry to repeat myself.

Ok, I think you need to remove yourself from the situation ASAP. I'd put your plan in motion NOW not on Sunday (yes I realize it will cost you a bit more to board the dogs for a few extra days but can you put a price on your emotional distress???).
Also, get someone ELSE to help you move!!! I wouldn't accept another iota of help from this selfish, cruel person.
I'm sorry he's being such a donkey. Hang in there.
Sheri
Thanks for your support.
Wow...that's scary. He threw a *fit* because friends offered to help you move? My goodness! I hate to have to ask, but seriously, are you safe being there?
I think being out of there NOW is probably more important to your sanity at this point than having the dogs with you. Or are you afraid he'll prevent you from getting the rest of your stuff or something? If so, have your friends come with you this weekend to move the rest of it and bring a police officer as well. Better safe than sorry!
Sheri