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| Tue, 02-21-2006 - 11:34am |
Hello,
I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. I was the one who initiated the conversation because I could feel if I didn't he was going to. He needs to feel single again. We are only 21 and finishing college in June. He can't end college in a long term relationship. I understand where he is coming from and I don't want to hold him back. But I miss him already and it hurts so much. I am so used to having him around. He is a good guy and I am afraid I won't find another one like him again. I know I will be okay eventually but right now I can't sleep or eat or do school work. My friends say all the right things but they're never been through something like this. I has helped me to read the messages on this board because I know I'm not alone. Any advice on how to cope would be appreciated.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. I was the one who initiated the conversation because I could feel if I didn't he was going to. He needs to feel single again. We are only 21 and finishing college in June. He can't end college in a long term relationship. I understand where he is coming from and I don't want to hold him back. But I miss him already and it hurts so much. I am so used to having him around. He is a good guy and I am afraid I won't find another one like him again. I know I will be okay eventually but right now I can't sleep or eat or do school work. My friends say all the right things but they're never been through something like this. I has helped me to read the messages on this board because I know I'm not alone. Any advice on how to cope would be appreciated.

hello feygirl19
i feel sorry for what happen to u...but dont worry everything will be alright...for right now respect his decision believe me sooner later he'll be begging you to come back for him. 3rys relationship is not that easy to forget!!! especially this day teenage love/puppy love most of them last forever!! i dont know why? but most of them are!!! so right now just relax think positive..give him time and think that he made a wrong step!!! you never know maybe he has some problem(school/financial/family/health/etc)and dont want you to get involved coz he love you and dont want you to be worried!!! your only 21 right? remember thing happen for a reason maybe his not your soul mate or whatever you call it!! JUST TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOUR SELF RIGHT NOW!!! GOOD LUCK