he asked out my friend

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Registered: 02-11-2007
he asked out my friend
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Wed, 03-14-2007 - 4:42pm
we've been broken up for over a month and I just can't get it out of my head. He asked out MY FRIEND. What a jerk...I'm right back to where I was when we first split up. I can't sleep or eat. Any thing I see that reminds me of her...I want to throw up. what the heck is he doing? is he TRYING to hurt me? how do i get over this? I can barely make it thru a day at work....
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 5:17pm

Hi karvs,


What did your friend say when she was asked out?


To quote you: What a jerk...


Start journal writing, vent on paper.

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Registered: 02-11-2007
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 5:26pm

She said she asked "what about Kris" and he said "don't worry about her...that's all done" She told me that she said "I don't feel comfortable with this at all. Kris is a good friend of mine..." and he got crappy with her.

I will do exactly what you advised. I believe you told me about a month ago that there would be good and bad during all this. BOY...you were right. I don't know what I'd do without you people here on IV...seriously....

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 5:31pm

Well, at least your friend is loyal to you and with him getting crappy with her, she got to see his true colors.

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Registered: 02-11-2007
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 5:40pm

thank you...yes, there are a lot of good people on this site. Thanks for your help...

K.

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Registered: 03-05-2007
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 9:38pm

OMG.....

Just be grateful you have such a loyal friend. I wasnt so lucky and it breaks my heart to see my three year friendship with my (best?)friend go down the drain because she is sacrificing it to go out with a guy i was dating, the same guy who stopped talking to me after i told him that i was uncomfortable with the fact that they chatted everyday for hours on end. Trust me you are so lucky to have such a friend.....it could have been worse....Ultimately i lost a friend i did everything with to a guy i really really liked...and i guess he didnt like me as much or care that he was breaking up a friendship...

Just be glad that loser is outta your life...