He CHEATED!!

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Registered: 02-07-2007
He CHEATED!!
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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 10:56pm

OMG...!


Ok, I feel bad for telling you guys this--but I hacked into my ex-bf's email and found all these conversations that he's been having his coworker. So basically-he's been cheating on me.


Ok-back up. My ex bf broke up with me on Sunday stating that we just didn't connect anymore. He really made me feel as though it was my fault. And just today, I was hacking into his email (I KNOW! It's wrong)...and found out that he was cheating.


This WHOLE time I was so broken hearted because I thought it was my fault...BUT he cheated. OK-he slept with a girl (his coworker)

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Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: corina582
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:23am

Hey Corina


My ex also cheated on me, but he stayed with me and I didn't find out for a while. I was devastated, so was he. He spent over 6 months trying to win me back, and I eventually gave it another try and ended it about 3 months ago. So a year kind of wasted.

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Registered: 12-28-2007
In reply to: corina582
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:27am

It's way easier for me to get over a guy who has cheated on me because I know that I am not missing out on anything at all but a cheating loser. It's much harder when the guy treats me well but just isn't the right guy for me because he personality traits (such as lying and being irresponsible) are deal-breakers.

I say good for you for knowing the whole truth and realizing it wasn't your fault after all. I've been there except I hacked my ex's AIM and the girl he was cheating on me with IMed me thinking I was him. It was after we broke up as well and I just about instantly got over him after that, though I was still hurt.

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Registered: 01-15-2008
In reply to: corina582
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 1:14pm

Hi there.


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