He Cheated ..what to do?
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| Sat, 07-01-2006 - 9:29pm |
My boyfriend of over two years cheated on me. He kissed an ex about a month ago and i didnt fin out til today. THe last two plus years have been amazing. Hes my best friend, support, my everything. Yeah he fought from time to time but nothing major. One day about 3 weeks ago he out of the blue said he needed a break. I should have seen it as a sign. He told me his two jobs and school schedule didnt allow enough time for him to give me 100% of the time i deserve. AFter a week of being on a break , he appoligized and we were back together. Last night, at a mutual friend's house i was told my boyfriend could not join us after he got off work, ALthough these were mutual friends. I was confused and mad at my friends. THey wouldnt explain but just told me to talk to him. I begged him to tell me anything that was going on. He denied anything and said my friends were being rediculous. TOday after a great day of shopping with my boyfriend a friend calls me and says she just cant take it anymore , she says "hes cheated on you" I ask my boyfriend, telling him to just tell me the truth, he still denies. I call the girl he suposidly cheated with, and she denies it. an hour later, she calls back and spills everything. I demand the truth from my boyfriend, and he breaks down. He admits to kissing her about 3 days before we decided to take a break. Stupid me, ofcoarse there was a reason for that out of the blue break.
Im heatbroken. Hes the first serious relationship ive ever had and i put my everything into the last two years. I cant stop crying and cant bring myself to do much mre than lay in bed. He tells me he understands if i hate him, and that he made a mistake and still loves me. I believe him. Hes never hurt me before, never cheated before. BUt i always said id never say with someone who cheated. I just cant do it, i love him too much. Im afraid if i break up with him, ill fall apart and loose the man i planned on marrying, the love of my life. please give me insight.

Hello,
I agree, it seemed to me that he was hoping to get back with his ex after this supposingly only Kiss. He wanted a break right after. That to me says alot. Maybe she decided she didnt want to get back together with him so he went back to you. That to me says alot. He also lied about it.