is he crazy, immature or just not for me

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Registered: 11-20-2007
is he crazy, immature or just not for me
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Tue, 11-20-2007 - 9:46pm

i got engaged to this guy about a year ago after dating for three months (we knew each other previously, however, he was involved when we met). over the past year we have had horrible fights which boil down to i don't like the way he talks to me and i

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 10:45pm

Welcome to the board rosebud27,


I have so many different answers to your questions....


::is he crazy, immature or just not for me


For me - crazy, immature would = just not for me


::after he told me he was going out on a date that night unless i called him to discuss our problems.


Manipulation at it's finest.


You might want to try one (or two of these):


How to Break Your Addiction to a Person by Howard M. Halpern


Facing Love Addiction, Pia Mellody


Obsessive Love by Susan Forward


How To Fall Out Of Love by Dr. Debora Phillips


You also might want to check out this other iVillage board for support:


Codependents & Love Addicts


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 9:56am

It sounds like it's time to either block his number, or get a new phone number.