he left me

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Registered: 05-17-2007
he left me
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 5:05am

last night i went to visit my boyfriend and he told me that he doesnt think things will work for us! he said that he has been unhappy for the last week and he just wants time to himself to do what he wants to do. we had only been together for 3 months but it was whirlwind and we fell for each other very hard very quickly! we spoke about our future together and only the night before he left me he said he hoped i was the one for him!

now i dont know what to do. i keep hoping that he is going to txt me and say he has made a mistake but i know this isnt going to happen. but i dont know how to move away from it all. i really just wanna call him.

what should i do? x x x x x

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Registered: 03-19-2007
In reply to: princess_becka
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 9:23am
I'm in your exact same position. My ex and I dated for 6 months and I fell madly in love with him. Last week he asked me all kinds of questions about marriage and then 3 nights ago he told me that he didn't think we could work out. I forced him to explain to me a lot and found out that he had lied to me about a lot of core values that I really believe in. I'm still crying myself to sleep every night but I know that this relationship can never be repaired. My suggestion to you is to get rid of all contact information that you have of him. This way you can't can him or even email him. Chances are if he is wrong and really wants you than he'll call you. If you call him, he'll back away and won't try to repair the damage that he caused.
I know what you're going through, but you've got to try to take one day at a time and try to make yourself happy away from him.
Let me know how things work out and I hope that things get better!
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Registered: 05-10-2007
In reply to: princess_becka
Thu, 05-17-2007 - 11:00am

Give him some space. Give him some time to work it out in his head and yourself some time as well. The other poster was right, don't call and take it one day at a time.

Hang in there, it will get better!